Here is a story we hear over and over. A woman had been stalked. Her car had a tracking device on it. Her home had cameras in it that she did not know about. Her husband got angry and threw his cell phone at her. He threatened to kill her cat. And she had been told she had no case for domestic violence.
This is classic domestic violence and we have seen it dozens of times. Not all family law attorneys understand or have been trained in domestic violence. We see these families time and time again after their stories and trauma have been downplayed or ignored. We listen. We understand. We just get it.
Why Is That Domestic Violence?
Arizona’s definition changed on June 22, 2026. The Alec and Lydia Act expanded the definition of domestic violence to include coercive control, which means a pattern of behavior designed to dominate, isolate, and control another person even when no physical violence occurred.
Surveillance and tracking are on that list. So are threats. So are threats to harm you or your pets. So is demeaning and degrading conduct. So are financial monitoring and control, isolation from friends and family, threats involving immigration status, welfare check calls placed as harassment, and using the family court itself as a weapon by filing false or frivolous claims to exhaust or punish the other parent.
Every fact in that story is on the list. The tracker on the car. The cameras in the house. The threat to the cat. Read together they are not four unrelated complaints. They are a pattern, and the pattern is what the statute now reaches.
What If It Happened Years Ago?
The age of the abuse does not weaken it. One incident might sound like a complaint or sound insignificant. Twenty incidents over five years reveal a course of conduct that is domestic violence. The pattern is the case. The evidence comes in. It is relevant under the Alec and Lydia Act.
Do I Need a Police Report or Photographs?
No. Under the Alec and Lydia Act, the victim’s testimony alone can establish domestic violence. A claim is proven by a preponderance of the evidence, which means more likely than not. Corroboration from exhibits or another witness is not required. You just need your story.