The Parties’ Obligations:

• Desire to compromise and find a resolution
• Act in good faith
• Listen calmly to the other party, even if you disagree with their statements
• Stay professional and considerate of the other parties’ statements
• Conduct good communication with the other party and the mediator
• Have an active role in the decision-making process
• Full disclosure of all debts and assets and information required in Rule 49

The Mediator’s Role:

• Identifies the issues with the help of the parties
• Outlines and discusses the possible solutions for each issue
• Shares experiences as a practicing family law litigation attorney
• Recognizes each parties’ needs, fears, and desires for the outcome
• Encourages a spirit of cooperation
• Keeps the focus on the parties’ future, rather than their past
• Accepts the parties as they are and refuses to judge or control the parties
• Allows the parties to take their time and not be coerced
• Remains neutral
• Helps the parties in a professional, encouraging, courteous manner
• Emphasizes that the mediator does not represent either party nor give legal advice