Categories: Domestic Violence

Domestic Violence Awareness Month: Is It Me?

You don’t have a black eye. He has never punched you. And, he really just yells at you and tells you how stupid you are. He throws temper tantrums when no one is around. He rolls his eyes at things you say. He pretends he is joking when he says mean things about you in front of other people. And, then somehow…you have lost all your friends and family since you two got together. Where did all your people go? Where are your loved ones who always made you feel good about yourself and made you laugh and feel happy? Is there something wrong with you ? No, there is not. Domestic violence batters are great at manipulating you to make you behave how they want to feed into their own needs and ego. They control you in the most subtle ways. You didn’t even realize this was happening. But you are not alone, it is NOT your fault, and help is available. Find a counselor, find a way to safely leave, and start talking to people who love you and can help.

Cindy Best

Recent Posts

My Children Want to See Their Dad. Does That Matter If There Is Domestic Violence?

Why a child's desire to see an abusive parent does not override safety under the…

4 days ago

I Never Called the Police. Do I Still Have a Case for Domestic Violence?

How domestic violence can be established without a police report, and what records, timelines, and…

4 days ago

The Abuser Finished a Class. Do They Get the Children Unsupervised?

Why a class completion certificate alone does not restore unsupervised parenting time, and what Arizona…

4 days ago

What Can the Court Order the Abusive Parent to Do?

The court can order intervention programs, counseling, drug and alcohol testing, bonds, and other safeguards…

4 days ago

How Do I Prove Domestic Violence With No Police Report and No Photos?

How to start proving domestic violence in family court when there is no police report,…

2 weeks ago

What is the Standard of Evidence in the Alec and Lydia Act?

How preponderance of the evidence and clear and convincing evidence work under the Alec and…

2 weeks ago