If you are going through a divorce, Valentine’s Day can be especially painful. But really, who does enjoy this particular calendar day? Many people not going through a divorce might not be so keen on this day either. So, maybe change the way you think about February 14. Maybe it could a kindness day where you make an effort to be kind to others, to think of others, to help someone else. Maybe it is a day not just about you. Maybe it is a day where you help someone else have a better day. There cannot be enough kindness and thoughtfulness in the world. Maybe that is the real message on February 14, just be nice. Just be kind.