When you are really serious about giving us a call. We can chat with you and give some idea of what your next step might be. We will probably advise you to schedule a legal consultation with an attorney who can give you specific advise about your very specific family. Don’t trust the guy down the street, the friend at the bar, the neighbor out walking their dog, the friend in Sunday School, the person at the golf club…While they are very nice people, I am sure, they are not experienced family law attorneys. Just pick up the phone and get some peace of mind. Once you have a road map, you’ll know how to get where you want to go.