I am sure that everyone has memories of their childhood holidays. The real question is whether they are happy and joyful or stressful and depressing. If you are a parent, you have some responsibility on how your children will remember their holidays. If you are going through a divorce, it is sometimes hard to focus on your kids, but it is such a loving thing to do even when you are in pain. You are helping create lifelong memories for your children so you can help craft those memories any way you wish. If you had miserable childhood memories, you can stop that pattern and create happy times and traditions for your kids.