Yes, I get that. I have seen people dance; not me because I have two left feet but I understand it takes two to tango. But I really do not believe that it takes two to tango applies in a divorce. Quite frankly, it only takes one party to make a divorce a completely miserable, expensive and horrible experience. And, then the reacting party throws an elbow and you have an all out divorce war. So, think about this. Make sure you are not the person starting the war and you are not the person throwing the elbow. The best you can hope for in this situation is that you find two reasonable attorneys who teach civility and reasonableness to their clients. Nice really does matter.