It is a new year and a new decade. It might be the perfect time to consider your conduct in your divorce or custody matter. This might be the right time to turn over a new leaf. Remember that you get to decide how to go about this difficult business of splitting up your family. You can choose to do it the easy way or the hard way… why not do it the easy way? Why not figure out the best way to help your children and learn to communicate with them. Why not figure out how to handle your anger and become healthier. Remember that anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Happy New Year. Make it the beginning of a great decade.