The best thing you can do for your children during a divorce is keep them out of the conflict. That means that you might consider going to mediation so you can resolve issues in a nice, quiet, low key environment. Even if you the mother are upset, a third party can help keep emotions in check. And, if you are angry at your ex because she had an affair, or because you think she is being unfair about money, this has nothing to do with your kids. They only have one childhood, so make a fun, happy and peaceful one for them. Call on your better self to get this done nicely. Know the law, know how the judge might decide and don’t argue for sport. Your children will thank you, not just on Father’s Day but everyday.